Stay with your chart first
If the question is about your attachment pattern, hesitation, or life season, start with your own chart and timing context.
Relationship flow
Some relationship questions start with your chart. Others require two charts.
A personal chart preview helps you understand your own pattern first. Compatibility becomes more useful when the question is no longer only about your emotional style, but about the real interaction between two people.
How to decide
Shift into compatibility when the question becomes relational instead of personal.
Move to compatibility second
If the question is about repeated friction, attraction, pacing, or communication between two specific people, compatibility is the stronger next tool.
Do not confuse fit and season
A low-energy relationship phase does not always mean the pair is wrong. Sometimes the current month or season is the main pressure point.
Use both layers in sequence
The best flow is often chart preview first, compatibility second, and timing context alongside both when the relationship feels unstable.
Best next step
Use compatibility when the question includes another person you actually need to compare.
This keeps the platform practical and helps the relationship layer feel like a real next step rather than an upsell for its own sake.
Keep reading
Build the relationship reading in the right order.
How to prepare for compatibility
Collect the right information before you run a relationship reading so the result is more usable.
Read prep guideWhat compatibility scores mean
Do not flatten the reading into a single number. Understand what the score is pointing at.
Read score guideWhen timing matters more than fit
Some relationship problems are really season problems. Use that distinction before assuming the bond is wrong.
Read timing guideFAQ
Common compatibility-step questions.
Can I use compatibility if one birth time is unknown?
Yes, but treat it as directional rather than maximally precise, especially when timing nuance matters.
Should compatibility come before monthly guidance?
If the relationship question is urgent and person-specific, yes. If the issue feels more like a life phase problem, monthly context may come first.
What if I just want to understand attraction?
Compatibility can still help, but it is stronger when the question also includes behavior, pacing, or whether the bond is workable over time.